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Dear Twenties

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More of me   DEAR TWENTIES To the people who are confused and still figuring it out. I’ve read somewhere, and I’m sure many of you have too, that our twenties are special—a crucial phase of life. And I believe it’s true. Your twenties are all about exploring, wandering, falling, healing, and finding your path. Your early twenties are a time to make decisions about your future and figure out what you want in life—it marks the beginning of everything because you’re no longer a teenager. This is the time when you have to choose a good college and decide what you want in life. Some people have a solid mindset and figure out early on what they want. For others, fate takes them in unexpected directions. Then there are those who, under the influence of others, learn and try to do things, some are unable to accomplish them, and more than half of them are confused about what to do. If what they’re doing doesn’t work out, they end up feeling hopeless. But honestly, what can a 1...

Adulthood Club!

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Flowers need time to bloom .  So do you . Again!!! Here we go again.. 1-05-2024 Turning 24...doesn't it feel exciting or responsible? With each passing year we only realize on our birthday, Damn! Another year has passed. And from being excited about every birthday to feeling nothing at all we all become adults.   Welcome to the club! When a child is excited for his/her birthday basically that child is expecting a birthday party, presents, a big Barbie or superhero cake, celebrating with all the friends and in the end it just like yeah, I got this, I got that.  It's so nostalgic like your parents used to ask you what you want for your birthday and you had a long list of things in your mind but you choose the expensive one because you know it’s your birthday and your parents will never denied for that. But gradually with time you become a bit mature so you don’t celebrate your birthday at home with bunch of neighbour’s kids, relatives and family. You just go out with yo...

2023

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  2023 Maybe I’m healing but I never forget how this year broke me.     2023.., You damn 2023. How can I forget you? You were the worst and craziest at the same time. Seriously you were roller-coaster of everything.  I have done a lot of things this year. And I will always remember it. I didn't think twice before taking any decision. I just took the risk and left everything to fate. Eventually, I overcame my fear. Yes, it took a while but now I know what's important to me. This year I took two trips. My cousin sister got married for which I had dreamed since childhood. I quit my last job I never thought I could quit; But I started my journey all over again. I made new friends and explore a lot of things.  Finally letting go of the past and focusing on new things. Perhaps I took some decisions hastily, but maybe those decisions were very important to take. Eventually, I graduated. I Got away from people who weren't good for my mental health....

Healing require Peace🕊️

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I was checking my instagram. I saw some pervious archive stories in which I posted some Q/A. I got a lot of messages and I tried to share everyone’s answers. I read that again and then I thought of writing something about that. So here are some thoughts I want to share and this is also a reminder for me. I hope it will be useful for you. Most of the questions were about how to overcome from toxic relationships, from the past and about the healing process, self-doubt, etc. Most of the questions are mentioned below.  And there were so many questions like that. At first, I felt bad how people doubt themselves just because of how they were treated. It’s just because they didn’t get what they deserve. I am not the only one and you are not the only one who is going through bad times. Everyone is suffering from something they didn’t share. But it’s not bad to share your feelings. Well I am no genius or god that I can solve your misery in seconds. But I am just a writer who can...

WHY I DIDN'T TELL YOU

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         Do you believe in fairy tales?      "Even though we may not believe in fairy tales but sometimes they turn out to be real." But does every story have a happy ending? "Why I didn't tell you" is one of the tale among them. Surbhi and Shaurya had written their story on the pages of memories. But suddenly those pages started looking empty and all the memories seemed blurry. Isn’t it strange. Right? How the memories you cherish before a separation can become your worst enemies and best friend afterwards? I am not talking about those memories that you capture in your phone and post on social media. I am talking about those memories you feel detached from, which you want to live a thousand times and many more. And you know that those memories and moments are a piece of your soul. The thoughts you loved to think about, the memories you wanted to hold up to the light and view from every angle–it suddenly seems a lot safer to lock them in a...